One Ring to Rule Them All

21 04 2013
Tolkien Ring

Could this be THE ONE RING?

A quest.

This weekend, one woman has braved the elements with her husband and FFOMC (future father of my children).

Many have accepted the challenge but few have successfully completed the ULTIMATE DATE DAY.

Hobbit hole

In a flat above a shop there lived a couple. It wasnt a nasty, dirty, flat (although the roof did leak every time there was heavy rain). It was not filled with an oozy smell (unless you count the copious amounts of insense sticks), nor was it yet a bare, characterless flat with nothing in it to sit down on or to eat: it was the home of a married couple, and that means comfort.

In this flat lived two people. They had simple needs. The pressing need over this particular weekend was to find a suitable Date Day activity that would meet both of their individual needs.

This couple were not looking for an adventure, but without thie bidding it; adventure – came to them.

This particular adventure started last weekend. It started with what seemed like a harmless and entirely unadventurious suggestion to make the most of the current good weather by finding a suitable location for a nice romantic walk.

And so the search began. But, when a modern woman is enticing her husband to participate in a romantic ‘date day’ it is imperative to have the appropriate ‘hook‘. Therefore, when I announced this morning that we would be following through with our plans to ‘GO OUT’ I had to sweeten the deal somehow. The conversation went as follows:

ME: (tentatively) Soooo…should we leave in about an hour?

FFOMC: (taken aback) Er…OK I suppose just after I finish my game. Where exactly are we going?

ME: (with great confidence) In search of ‘THE ONE RING’

FFOMC: (more interested) Are you talking about the one in Lord of the Rings?

ME: Yes.

FFOMC: Oh. OK Then.

Now I may have oversold the excursion a little.

Our trip was to The Vyne in Basingstoke. Two good friends of ours – spent their Saturday there and as is the way with modern technology they poted a photograph on FaceBook. The Vyne is a National Trust site of historical interest. When I looked at it – it seemed to be the perfect location for a romantic walk on a sunny Sunday afternoon. It started as an intimate family home in Tudor times but I needed a way of engaging my other half. Luckily it is also the home of an ancient Roman Secret.

Here comes the geeky husband friendly bit. They have a new exhibition showcasing a ring from the Roman Empire which is said to be Tolkien’s inspiration for ‘The One Ring’ from his famous Lord of the Rings books. They even have a ring room in which you can read the story of this ring, the Roman tablet inscribed with a curse on the man who stole it, and its fascinating connections with Tolkien.

In contrast to our last attempt at a Date Day: we both managed to get ourselves out of the house with minimum fuss and enjoyed a stress free drive to the site with FFOMC following the sat nav directions. We had secured a free pass from the internet which we printed that guaranteed us free entry to a site that usually charges over £10 per person to the gardens and house.

We started with a leisurly walk of 2.3 miles (following the brown arrow route) and didn’t run into another soul as we walked hand in hand enjoying just being outside in the fresh air and chatting about everything and nothing. We had not one penny of cash on our person’s so we could not purchase anything during our time there (although the hog roast was most tempting and we did consider the virtues of becoming cut-purses for the day) but we enjoyed seeing the actors playing; Robin Hood, Maid Marion and George (complete with a Dragon of sorts) and wittnessing the archery, Morris dancing and other activities throughout the day.

The house itself was splendid and during out tour we reflected on the fact that on our holiday’s abroad – we love these sorts of excursions- but for some reason do not make the most of the rich history we have less than half an hours drive from our doorstep.

The ring exhibit iteslf (the main attraction as far as FFOMC was concerned) was confined to one small room and visitors were able to view the ring through a magnifying glass. It is inscribed (much like Tolkien’s ring) and there is the legend of a curse on anyone who steals it.

The link to Tolkein seemed tenuous but we really enjoyed the day.

On our return journey we stopped for a carvery lunch at a Brewers Fayre which was awsome and despite being our main expense, it rounded our day off nicely and brought Date Day Take 2 to a wonderful end.

brewers_fayre

All in all it has been a very adventurous day for us and I truely suspect we have Hobbit blood give our adventurous spirit! If all subsequent Date Days are as successful we may need to make it a weekly event! We may not have made it all the way to Mordor but it definitely brought us closer together 🙂

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Spontaneity

29 03 2013

frensham-pond-hotel-farnham

The more eagle eyed amongst you will have noticed that my last post was a day late. This is because of an impromptu decision last night to stay in a hotel following my sister-in-laws wedding.

I was extremely disappointed that I wasn’t able to able to attend the ceremony in the afternoon because of work commitments. In fact I was surrounded by a sea of paperwork when I received a text from my husband immediately lifting my mood, suggesting that I pack an overnight bag when I finished work and he would book us a room for us. This meant I could relax at the evening reception and enjoy a few drinks without having to drive home.

After our disastrous date day a few weeks ago I welcomed the opportunity to do something spontaneous and romantic. I rushed home picking up my new outfit on the way, and a fabulous pair of nude peep toe stilettos. I even squeezed in a visit to the hair dresser to have my hair pinned to perfection atop my head in what I would describe as a designer messy look.

When I arrived at the evening reception – feeling like a million dollars – my husband of 8 years beamed at me as he ushered me into the chair next to his.

The evening involved a little dancing – something he definitely needs a few beers to even consider – some red wine, a buffet, and some quality time with my extended family.

As I enjoyed being in my husband’s arms I noticed how ecstatic my sister-in-law looked in the arms of her new husband at the end of the evening. She had swapped her pure white gown for the ceremony, with a pillar box red cocktail dress for the evening entertainment and clung to her new husband as the dulcet tones of Chris De Burgh crooning “Lady in Red” resonated from the speakers.

When the morning arrived about 8 of us enjoyed a full English breakfast together before a long walk round the pond admiring the ducks and huddling together in the cold with our faces red and windswept and our hair tousled. When we all completed the circuit we decided that a final drink in the hotel bar was in order before we went our separate ways on the journey home.

I got a lot of pleasure from this spontaneous romantic evening – maybe the key to romance and successful date days is not to over plan them but to just go with the flow.

 

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