Project Happy

1 11 2014

I am taking inspiration from The Daily Post and setting myself a schedule of sorts for the upcoming months by starting a project designed to promote a sense of happiness and well being.

Project Happy – I know, its a terrible name but it gives me a lot of scope. The premise  is based on the fact that I feel more secure and content if I am organised and have specific goals to work towards. Despite peoples preconceptions when they discover my job as a drama teacher I don’t do “airy fairy” and thrive with structure. So the plan is to look at how planning simple daily tasks can make me feel happier and give me a sense of accomplishment.

I will pick a topic each month e.g. my first month will be based on my home,  and I will set myself one 10 min task to complete per day and consider the feel good factor I achieve. I hope that my little and often approach will result in big changes to how I feel overall.

This isn’t a new concept in fact people often take this approach with healthy living, diets and weight loss. My hope is that other people will join in the challenge with me and consider how little improvements make them feel happier. If you decide to give it a go with me please leave comments and feel free to add photos etc. I will not be contacting people, sending email updates or Facebook requests – it would just be nice to know if anyone else is feeling happier by the end of the month. I am also happy to take suggestions for topics as long as they can be broken down into 10 mins a day.

My first topic will be about improving the environment in which I live – details to follow in a few days and the challenge itself will start on 1st November. Hopefully some of you will come along for the ride.

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Postaday

29 09 2013

I have been part of the postaday challenge since back in mid-January. For the most part I have been successful in writing something (however uninspiring) each day and maintaining a bit of discipline with my writing. But lately I have been finding it tough.

I am suffering with fatigue and finding it harder and harder to motivate myself to post every day. When I do miss a day, I try to post twice the subsequent day to make up for it and I am currently still adding the postaday banner each time I blog.

I have been questioning at what point I need to accept failure and stop adding the banner but I am reluctant to do this as that may mark the point when I accept that this challenge is too difficult and give up entirely. I have known other people to attempt the challenge only to give up a few weeks in when writers block first rears its ugly head when I managed to work through that stage several times.

For now I will struggle on and hope my fatigue passes, but I hope this does not mark the beginning of the end for me and my beloved blog.





Post Holiday Haze

23 08 2013

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I have just returned today after a fabulous holiday in the Dominican Republic.

I have been very twitchy about not posting for two weeks but I have always found it difficult to access the internet when I am abroad, irrespective of the strength of my motivation and my commitment to the postaday challenge.

So despite another trip planned in the coming week to catch up with my family in Northern Ireland – I am back with a vengence – totally refreshed and with some news ideas that may or may not be worth pursuing and developing in my writing.

As soon as I can shake off this jet lag, watch this space!





Best Moment Award

6 08 2013

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Thank you very much to  the Eye-dancers for nominating zehirablog for the Best Moment Award!  The nomination was actually made some time ago but I have been so busy I am only just getting round to responding. Please check out the Eye-dancers blog and enjoy the opportunity to read about a great young adult sci-fi fantasy e-book. 

THE BEST MOMENT AWARD

Awarding the people who live in the moment

The noble who write and capture the best in life

The bold who reminded us what really mattered

Savoring the experience of quality time

The rules:

  1. Create an acceptance speech either by video or a written speech post
  2. Pass the award onto 15 other bloggers and their posts

Acceptance Speech:

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Thank you eye-Dancers. It is with great pleasure that I accept the Best Moment Award.

Blogging has given me a marvellous opportunity to write about my own passions and read about the experiences of others. It is rewarding to know that some of what I have written has been read and enjoyed by others.

I plan to continue with my postaday challenge for an entire year which will take me to mid January 2014 at which point I will post less often but with more specific writing goals.

The nominations I have attached below are all great blogs and well worth visiting.

My Nominations:

http://joseasanoj.wordpress.com/2013/04/16/ever-spoken-to-your-guardian-angel-want-to-know-how/

http://indigobluebell.wordpress.com/2013/07/29/theres-the-door/

http://heehaa198.wordpress.com/2013/05/28/day-one/

http://loveandmotherhood.wordpress.com/2013/04/09/50-songs-for-moms/

http://wherewordsfail.com/2013/04/15/the-fear-of-living/

http://anotsoseriousworld.wordpress.com/2013/04/19/no-country-for-womankind/

http://rayhemachandra.com/2013/07/17/top-10-autism/

http://writegoodbooks.wordpress.com/2013/03/17/wordpress-blogging-crisis-thats-it-im-going-on-a-stats-diet/

http://adoptingjames.wordpress.com/2013/04/09/marriage-a-beginning-not-an-end/

http://harbin77.wordpress.com/2013/06/01/a-birthday-letter-from-jeff-age-14/

http://suzie81.wordpress.com/2013/05/09/why-arent-studets-allowed-to-fail/#comments

http://sofaruntitled.wordpress.com/2012/03/08/amy-farrah-fowler-you-have-a-lot-to-answer-for/

http://samtotally.wordpress.com/2013/08/02/prints-decoded-your-guide-to-21-trendy-prints/

http://stephensonlove.wordpress.com/2013/06/12/burgers-beer-baby-talk/

http://gettingrecognised.wordpress.com/2013/03/14/if-it-seems-too-good-to-be-true-then-it-probably-is/





Toemail Enthusiast

9 07 2013

http://toemail.wordpress.com/?s=zehira&submit=Search

I have recommended the above wordpress site to baby sister heeha. a relatively new blogger looking for inspiration. However – looking back at when I posted my own toes on this site, I have realised that I did not really make any public acknowledgement about how cool I think these guys actually are.

They have a ridiculously simple but terrific concept.

They basically collect images of toes. I love the interactive nature of this site. It is creative, fun and whimsical and a great way of uniting the blogging community in a collaborative project.

If you havent already done so – why not add a picture of your own toes?





1st WordPress Anniversary

1 07 2013

wordpressI have just received notification from WordPress today that it my is one year blogging anniversary.

 

207 posts later

6048 total views

1085 views last month in comparason to 18 in my first ever month

Average of 36 views per day

Started postaday challenge on 17/01/2013 still going strong 6 months later.

 

The first anniversary is usually marked with a paper gift – maybe I should treat myself to some post-it notes or a journal to record my ideas.

 





Advice to new bloggers

2 06 2013

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My baby sister called me this evening and apparently I have inspired her to join the blogging community. She is not the first; I appear to have encouraged a number of people to “give it a go”. This is really flattering but having been inspired by two blogging friends myself I remember reading their blogs and wondering how on earth they had mananged to come up with topics to write about.

My sister has only written a few posts so far but is keen to get creative and may even be encouraged to commit to posting once a day. However she is experiencing the typical writers block and nerves that any new blogger faces in the first month.

I am far from an expert on the subject of blogging. However I have managed to sustain my initial enthusiasm and currently post at least once a day.  I often have writers block but I have always pushed myself to keep writing. I have enjoyed the experience and appreciate this outlet for my creativity and want to share the advive I have offered my sister with anyone who is new to blogging and the wordpress community.

To all new bloggers – for what it is worth – this is my advice:

1/ Create a great “About” page: Nothing is more off-putting than one of those “this is an example of a page” messages. As a visitor to any new site; I tend to read recommended posts, maybe check out a few recent posts and I ALWAYS read the About page – this is how I can decide if it is a site I wish to follow and/or recommend. You will alter this regularly (as I do) as you start to generate followers and recognise what is unique about your site.

2/ Make sure you add categories and tags to all posts: This gives readers a quick way of accessing the topics you write about that they are most interested in reading. This is especially important if your blog is ecclectic and jumps from topic to topic. It is also a good way of making sure your Blog comes up in online searches.

3/ Write regularly: If you have written nothing new there is no reason for new visitors to check out your site and as a lot of people will check out more than one post when they visit. Remember, just because your post on that particular day is not a literary masterpiece doesnt mean new visitors wont stumble across some of you better work.

4/ Check out Freshly pressed: After all the more blogs you read and like and/or follow the more people will want to check out what you have written and its good for inspiration.

5/ Read a few random blogs each day: You expect people to read what you have written so return the favour.

6/ Use Social Media to drive site traffic: When you are ready to share your blog with close friends and family (and it is common to not want to do this straight away) – tag it on facebook and other social media sites. I personally took a long time to develop the confidence to do this but it really paid off and I discovered that my friends were very supportive and keen to read what I had writen.

7/ Read the Daily Post: This is a wealth of information about generating site traffic but also provides daily prompts and creative photo and writing challenges that will help you generate ideas for your blog.

8/ Postaday: If you are posting once a day, tag your posts with postaday and add a badge – this made a significant difference to my stats when I first started.

9/ Be unique: Do not be afraid to discuss your personal passions. Both myself and FFOMC receive regular visitors viewing the most obscure topics that we have written about.

10/ Try the 30 day challenge below:

30 day blog challengeWe all need ideas from time to time and getting started is the most difficult part. Once you have established a habit you will find is easier to come up with topics but the list above is a great way of creating content right at the beginning – I wish I had a copy when I first started out!